It is not always easy to accept that your beloved has had other girlfriends. There are girls who do not support the idea of thinking that have embraced and kissed another body other than his lips before.
But girls, boy has a history prior to meeting need not bother, not the least. Decision has been for either one, or both, the relationship is in the past.
But what if that person actually is not exactly in the past? If it’s a co-worker, or if both belong to the same group of friends, it’s hard to stop frequently seen.
Still, not to worry but find dealing with forms that the former is not a problem and not tarnish your happiness.
Who ended the relationship?
If courtship was who finished it, you should not worry too much. Somehow led him to make the determination, and luckily for you, ended the relationship with her.
Surely, in time you will leave finding out how their relationship ended, but not exactly a good idea to know all the details of the breakup. Except, of course, have been due to problems of infidelity, abuse, or some other reason that may affect you.
If who decided to end the relationship was her, the case is not the same, and if you want to know more, you should be cautious. If the breakup was recent, your guy may still be suffering.
How do you know? There are several signs that a man beat his ex: it still appears in the talks, maintain contact, either by phone, text message, or over the network. Neither is good to speak ill of her, with anger and insults.
Good to hear about your boyfriend’s ex, provided they do not negatively affect the couple: if you consider that you cannot with the idea of knowing about the past, let’s not talk about it. Knowing too could reveal something to suit you not continue the relationship.
How to deal with your boyfriend’s ex?
For situations where encounters with your ex girlfriend are common guy, you better know how to react. What is recommended is to be polite and pleasant: any attitude of irritation can be interpreted as an insecurity on your part and that she is a threat, you can have him back in her arms.
What if the same group of friends? If your ex girlfriend guy belongs to the same group of friends, work or study, the best solution for these situations is to pretend that nothing happens.
Have faith that if your love is with you, is because you choose. He’s your boyfriend now. However, it is good to have a good friend in the same group, just in the case of a party, where love and ex together are not a good idea.
The site of a former girlfriend of your boyfriend, is present or not in your life, depends a lot about you and who you choose to have at your side. Still, the former is still one of the five most common reasons for fights between partners.